computer chatter

Why do we get on the computer and chatter? When no one else is there the group of chat buddies are and they are actually interested and care and don’t need to rival or compete or be afraid of your neediness or other issues. Computers can be addictive and over done so I am learning after four months, to use the computer to build the best bridge to the real world. Whether it is chatting or other computer uses, DO NOT let cyberspace consume your real life and literally kill it off like any toxic substance will do. An example is that I study products on the internet when I decide I need something, but I rarely buy a thing from the computer. I am looking for real friends in a chat room; people that share their life honestly and openly and help me understand and cope with my own. Senior Chatters Site :and chatterers, I thank you for helping me bridge the gap to a better reality.:):):)
PS. Excuse me while I get another cup of coffee in the members café, if I don’t show up they will get worried or just miss my chatter there.