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While chatting with people in the chat rooms person/persons take what you have said and twisted it to suit their peyton place attitude. I stated I had a good friend here I cared about here it ended up it was more than friendship and had a thing going on with them, now I’ve lost this friend due to a vicious rumor and taking my words out of context so if you find im distance in the chat rooms you now know why how can I trust or say anything in chat without wondering if this will happen again to the person who started this /and you know who you are I hope you have a better life in the future for I’ve lost a good friend so hope you enjoy what has happened.

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  1. Shy it is such a shame this has happened to you. The kind of folk who think that way dont have interesting lives of their own so they make things up just to ‘rock the cradle’ so to speak. They arent worth knowing. And I do hope your friend realizes it is just someone stirring things up and will return to talking to you. Don’t you just detest people who do this kind of thing!!

  2. Dear Bro,i hope your friend returns to you,in time,as i know what a great,loyal friend you are,!,..she also doesnt need to listen to others,as some people love to blow every thing out of proportion,..that is there only way of getting attention,…negative,negative,pray for them, (((((((((bug hugs)))))))).

  3. I don’t know if I have spoken to you in the chat room shyguy. but I most likely have and I have never found any of the regular men I have spoken to to be offensive. a bit of banter in my book is not being offensive, and it is okay in my book. it is what we all want really .life to be made light with light hearted banter

    1. Hey Shy. Never commented here b4 but am encouraged by your blog. I am serving as a Security Officer. There is a Lady at one of the Places I Serve that is ALL Drama!! Never heard such animated Dribble in my Life. Some folks just need it I guess. Let it Roll off your shoulder.

  4. Shy bewildered as to why anyone would even want to cause pain and gossip thats untrue , friendshipis for both male and female on here i treat all the same ,but i have also been called to look to my morals by two peoplei n chat in the past, i always answer, my morals are pure , so please do the same and dont allow anyone to sit in judgement upon you or your friend ,its not anyones business but your own …. why they imagine these things tells us they are leading very boring lives , so they have to impinge on others lives to make there’s more interesting , and i just feel so sorry for them …. life is for living …… live it shy ….

  5. Well well well…..the knives are out again, what a surprise………. Shy, the person that has started these rumours has the problem, don’t make it yours my friend………..so now we are not allowed to say we are fond of someone, or have a good friend, or we are having a full blown love affair………oh Lordy, and I thought I had a vivid imagination, this person should be putting pen to paper, would be brilliant at writing drama……….well I luvs all the guys, so make of that what you will the saddo s..t stirrer……..to your friend, I hope she opens her eyes and see’s you for the nice guy you are…….xx

  6. Shyguy, You seem to have a grip on why people do stir in others life and I agree with you. I am sorry about the whole sorry sad business. Taking things out of context may have happened to your lady friend and maybe you can set it straight with her. The problem here is gossip.

  7. i don’t have a very interesting life but i don’t repeat what somebody says in chat or out..usually by the time i leave here i don’t even remember what was said…lol…now where was i going with this?…hhmmm…….

  8. Sorry to hear shy. I quit going to the chat room because I have been ridiculed in the chat room in the past. I have a hard time letting things roll off my back. Two frequent chatterers were rude and I felt bullied. Some people should think before they speak. I did tho enjoy many chats with great people. For me, it takes a few to spoil an enjoyable chat. There, I finally said it. That’s why I quit the chat room. Luce.