WHERE DO THEY GO AFTER SENIOR CHATTERSN

macathy August 31, 2012
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Have you ever wondered what happens to the many people who enter Senior Chatters.The ones you get so close too,feel their sadness ,their joy, the wonderful excitement they often share with you.People come for different reasons..Senior Chatters serves them for the time they are here,they get the friendship they need ,for the times they need it, then they move along.This is good ,its the reason Rob made the site ,so people can access it for the time they need it.People stay or they move on I know this but I still wonder what happens to them.I wonder if they are happy in themselves now ,did chatters give them all they wanted or are they still roaming around the cyber highway, looking for what it is they were searching for.

These thoughts come to me, as I am sitting here in my lonely room, the sun shinning through the big old glass windows .Life for some is not as good as it used to be ,the empty nest sydrome comes to mind, marriages break up, age creeps up and we cant do the things we used to be able too.The good thing here is that we have Chatters and can roam around looking in all the rooms see where it is that we would like to be .Able to join in the feeling of being wanted Oh to be wanted everyone needs that, and it should be a right of all people ,but sadly not everyone is lucky to feel wanted.

I should move on,not good just sitting her thinking,need to go see what is happening in that other group ,sometimes I just feel like life is passing me by. I met a lady the other day, she said that she just roams around, nothing in life seems to interest her anymore ,I tried to tell her she has to move on ,cant just stay here waiting for things to happen.I am waiting myself really, to see if the life I had will come back to me.I was really having fun in my life till it happened, but we cant always change things that have happened in our lives ,we just have to make the best of it.

Now I am going to get myself sorted out, I certainly dont want to end up like that man over there,he just stands there looking in the window, at everyone having fun inside. Day after day I see him, he tells me he tries ,but he just cant do it anymore ,its too heartbreaking to be pushed away ,everytime he tries to get close to people in that room. There were so many friends he used to chat to for hours …i see a tear fall, as he speaks of it ,then just wipes it away and says
“Help me please”

Have met many people like that as I walk around the last few days.I myself trying so hard to make contact with my friends. I seem to be there but just out of reach,its a horriable feeling , as if a glass patition has been put up in front of me.I just knew that it was not a good idea to try Robs new room, I remember the last time he tried a new room. I seemed to be locked in for ages,just couldnt get out ,was a terriable feeling,but I said yes lets try this new room then.Now when asked if I would let my friend silence me I said yes.I am so lost now and have no idea how things will work out Am I to roam around these halls of chatters for ever?

. One thing if have learnt in my meanderings is that the people that go missing from SENIOR CHATTERS ….have not left…. they are here with me.. roaming around.. trying to get back in the room… after being silenced ..or booted from the chat room .or were silly enough to try Robs new rooms too soon….. either by your friend or some other helpful Monitor .

Hope you enjoy love mac xxxxxxx

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      2. ozzie59 October 7, 2015

        Love your blog mac…makes me a bit sad too thinking about when I first joined this site..and you were one of the very first people I connected with…and yes I wonder too where everyone went…I know where some are…lol…

    2. papajeff December 29, 2014

      Never been here b4. A thought though. So many folk come and go, each a footprint on one’s soul. Once in a rare while, one sticks around. A new friend, worth the rest, I think.

  2. krazykatlady August 31, 2012

    oh maccie..i can feel you heart ache in your words..is there anything i can do to help you feel how much you are loved?…how much you’re needed?…i always notice when you’re not in chat..i wonder if you’re ok..or if you’re having a bad day and just need somebody to stop rushing about and give you a ((((((HUG)))))…i know you have much going on in your life..more than i know..maybe more than anybody knows…good things…and bad things…if you ever need to talk PM me or catch me in chat…or let lose in a private message..just know that i love you,dear sweet maccie..xxxx kat

  3. macathy August 31, 2012

    thank you kat … i was just writing a bit of nonsence.. dont want you to think i am sad i am not …think i best stop trying this line of writing thanks for reading it mac xxxx

  7. morvenna August 31, 2012

    Mac…..good blog….maybe some people come….find the chat room empty….and go away to wander…maybe some people don’t want to pay to chat….hahha I left the site and instead of just having a break……I closed my account…rash move…and now I pay….oh but it’s soooo worth it….,maybe some people are like me….I realise that I cant win them all….I can’t expect to get to know lots of people well……I would rather work at the friendships I have. Maybe some people are also like me….and find that….even though I really try….some people decide to ignore me…and thats not the best…but….I accept it… xxxxxxxx M

  10. Unknown Member August 31, 2012

    Mac You are such a good writer. You write with emotions that we all can feel. I think you have said many things that other chatters have felt on here. You do wonder where the chatters have gone? Especially the ones that had been on here so often for quite sometime. Maybe some still felt lonely on here. Maybe some were forced out , because they were misunderstood. Maybe some never realized they were talking to “real people. Maybe some see this as a cyber world, and that is not real to them, so when they leave, they are leaving a fantasy? It sure makes you wonder.

  11. marie41-2 August 31, 2012

    Cathy great blog . I also wonder about people were in the old S.C. like John from Leed’s who would write in the blogs everyday about his life and his cats and his wife. I am glad I decided to join S.C. as I really enjoy the friends I have made and enjoy reading all the blogs people write and meeting people from different parts of the world and have become friends with . So Cathy do hope you will continue to write in the blogs my friend. Marie

  12. krazykatlady August 31, 2012

    ohh maccie …boy did i get your blog wrong!!..hahhahhaaaaa…my offer still stands,tho..maybe you need to put a “WARNING: NONSENSE AHEAD!!” on your blogs when they aren’t suppose to be take so seriously..lol…but do keep writing..you are very good at it and i enjoy reading what you have to say..still luvs ya xx kat

  14. macathy August 31, 2012

    Well yes Bettyk it was meant as a send up of Robs room booting me out and I couldn’t get back in. But I do wonder where the people go that never be heard of again in chatter. Think you right kat about the warning. Next time I will think about that lololo Thanks. For everyone reading it. Mac

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