It never ceases to amaze me that some people's "true colours" appear after a death in a family.
My son's mother-in-law and a good friend of mine recently died and was buried. She has 2 children - a daughter and a son. The son's behaviour has been despicable showing his "true colours" to all people concerned. He has and is still harrassing his sister for money, even though she has repeatedly told him that their mother's assets have been frozen. He lies, cheats, and has physically abused his sister. All of this for money. The abuse took place when none of us were around.
His mother couldn't die quick enough. While she was lying in a hospital bed dying, he and his "new" lady friend went on camping trips, travelled interstate, and recently went on a 4 day cruise. His inheritance can't some quick enough for him. I have never met anyone like him. His longtime friends are gobsmacked at his behaviour.
His mother was a lovely, caring, generous lady, and would be turning in her grave at her son's selfish, despicable treatment of his sister, who was the one caring for her for years, with help from my son and myself. My son and I are very close to punching him, but I, and I told my son, he is not worth going to gaol for.