Soooo Excited!!!!

debz August 20, 2012
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Well today I am an excited Mom, I haven’t written a blog for a while, but I am unable to contain my excitement…
I am lucky to have 2 lovely sons, parents and a lovely brother, I am the way I am because of ‘blips’ which have occoured in my life because some decided to ‘try’ and knock me of my track…..I made it though because of my family who love and care about me…
I digress I kept taking baby steps and didn’t give up…
The reason for my excitement is my sons were ‘taken’ by my xHusband 13 years ago to the USA, I had not any funds to ‘fight’ the US Goverment, this happened in the age where it wasn’t that easy to keep in contact as the internet was still pretty new no SNS sites, no skype, letter writing was done every week to them…..pictures sent, then along came a new wife who then decided to become the Mother to my sons asking them to call her Mom…but I never gave up……I continued to letter write and take a somewhat active part…as active as I could, the wife and husband decided to get rid of the home phone so I couldn’t even speak to them…visitation was supposed to have been once a year but it never happened…accoring to the x there was ‘always’ something going on even though I was offering to pay… heartwrenching….
The last time I saw my sons was 5 years ago and I noticed changes…. it was a little concerning, news was being fed about me which was not very nice…..2 weeks was not long enough to get into deep and upsetting conversations…..
Along came skype and SNS networks and I continued the contact, I never gave up and didn’t just ‘accept’ that this is the way it will be, I am a little tanastistic when I am passionate about people I care and love….
Anyway after 5 years my son will be leaving his home in the USA today to fly over to be with me for 3 months, I have not been a Mommy for so long and I am so looking forward to catching up and seeing him face to face instead of on a pc screen, I am somewhat emotional and I cant wait to give him the hugest hug upon his arrival tomorrow!!!!!
It really is such a happy and exciting day for me and he arrives the day before my birthday and on Friday it is his birthday a huge yessssssssssssssssssssssssss…

You know what?

Mothers hold their children’s hands for a short while, but their hearts forever…..

Thanks for letting me be a little self indulgant once again!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Debz
xxxxx

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  3. macathy August 20, 2012

    Oh debz I am so glad that you are the loving caring person you are ….your son knows it, have the most wonderful hugs you can immagine having ,hold him close feel the love that generates back to you …you deserve it ,and God Bless you both ….mac

  6. friendlya August 20, 2012

    dear debz, i am soooooooooooo excited for you. I didnt know your story before, and it is heart wrenching….but her I feel begins the happy ending, so i guess we are not going to see you around here for a while……….. enjoy every single second my friend xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    1. debz August 20, 2012

      Thank you maize, it will be a super bestest birthday pressie for me, thats why he is flying out the day before our birthdays are within 2 days and the last time was 14 years ago when we last spent our birthdays together!!!! xxx

  8. Unknown Member August 20, 2012

    WooHoo!!!!!!!!!!!! So happy for you!!! You never gave up Debz…… you stayed right on loving him throughout. That’s what mom’s are for. My thoughts are with you and the happiness you will be enjoying soon!!! You’re are terrffic example of what everlasting love means!!! (((((hugs)))))

  9. katelin August 20, 2012

    Dear sweet Debz…. I am so very happy for you. I know how you have waited for all these years and have held that mother’s love and concern for your two boys through all that time. Those boys know that they have the best mom in you, and I’m so glad to know that you will be able to spend this time with one of them. Enjoy.
    Love and hugs to you, my dear, dear friend. xoxox

    1. debz August 20, 2012

      Oh sweet Kate I know you know the heartache I have suffered…. evryday I hear others talk about their children.. now I can go over to the local store and say hey this is MY son!!!…and of course yep I’ve been so excited everyone knows he’s coming over!!!

      xxx

  10. marie41-2 August 20, 2012

    Dear Deb, Have a wonderful time and so happy that you will have your son there with you for 3 months. You deserve to be happy as you are a lovely person. Hope your other son will be able to come over and be able to spend time with you also.Enjoy you time with your son my friend. Hugs Marie

  11. debz August 20, 2012

    Thank you so much anne I ‘ve not been on to much as lots going on and this took a lot of arranging……he has even taken my Fathers name it begins with H (been in the family since 1768) and my maiden name of which we didn’t know……such a lovely surprise,mind we had to rebook the flights to go to Ireland at a small cost… but well worth it…….he still has no idea he will be coming in on the 21st Aug and flying out to Ireland on the 22nd!!! and to stay in a beautifull Castle!!!…..xxx

  12. krazykatlady August 20, 2012

    awww debz…i didn’t have my kids kidnapped but i had my g-sons taken …and i have 3 g-kids that i don’t known their whereabouts..so i kinda know the heartbreak you’ve gone thru..i have such a good relationship now with my g-sons and their adoptive family..so i’m hoping and praying that all goes well with you..there will no doubt be a few bumps along the way but just keeping plugging along…you and your son will “find” each other again..and it will be even more wonderful than you can imagine…tc xxxxx kat

  13. debz August 20, 2012

    Thank you kat.. I am waiting eagerly for 7.36pm UK time as he takes off at 2.36pm US time!!!! so I can track his flight….. he finally gets here in the UK at 6.20am tomorrow..US time 1.20am!!!… xxx

  16. cinta August 20, 2012

    I am so happy for you Debz. I was in the same situation as your son debs but the other way round. My parents were divorced when I was 7 and had protected life and my mum always said my dad was this and that. When I finished schooling and got job, I went looking for my dad across the causeway. It was an emotional meeting. Children will always go looking for their mum/dad no matter what the other one say about mum/dad. Enjoy and savior every minute of your time with him.

    1. debz August 20, 2012

      Its so sad cinta, one thing I never did was bad talk their Father to them… may have said a few things to others but never to them…. it will be very emotional..I can’t wait!!! xxx

  17. Unknown Member

    Oh Debz, I don’t know what to say…if anybody deserved the happiness in life it is you. I know the heartbreak you suffered but you know what, maybe it is better that he is coming over is mature enough to see for himself everything that was done against you was because of spite and jealousy and now he is old enough not to believe the lies told.and how you hung on in there despite everything against you. That says everything about you sweet and caring character Debz and he will soon see for himself his REAL mum showing your genuine love for him and his brother.
    xx Don’t forget the pics and keep us all updated. I really am so happy for you x.

    1. debz August 20, 2012

      Awee thank you illgner…. yes I’m sure he will get to see his Mom how she really is!!! and not the ‘freak’ and selfish person I was meant to be….there really are some nasty bitter and twisted people about… keep stepping forward is what I used to say to myself…..and yes I will post lots of pics… xxx

  21. passaggio August 20, 2012

    Debz, I can’t even begin to understand how you must have felt all these years being miles away from your sons. I can tell by your words, there hasn’t been a moment that has gone by, that you didn’t keep them both wrapped around your heart. My hope for you , is that All the heartache and pain you have felt all these years, will disappear , and you will finally get to rejoice with your son. I couldn’t be happier for you. Like everyone has posted, you truly deserve this, and I for one can’t wait to hear all the wonderful stories you will tell us . Have the time of your life!! You deserve it all!! xx

  22. debz August 20, 2012

    Thanks pass yesss he is on his way now.. he just called me from the plane and they are now ….Taxiing (pushed from gate 6 minutes ago).. wow it’s really happening he’ll be here in just over 6 hours!!!!!

    God bless and thank you ALL so much for sharing my happiness!!!!!!

    Deb

    xxxx

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