Sometimes…just sometimes..
I know some of you must have wondered why I have been of the ‘radar’ for so long…..well I’ll say sometimes people have a huge influence on others….
This has nothing to do with the SC site, I have learned so much this past month, I have had an absolute nightmare dealing with funerals, the daughter dessicrating the wreaths after the funeral to take the ‘flowers’ home, and her forging wills, this has taken up so much time dealing with solicitors, I have seen my Mother go from a happy go lucky person to someone who is beside herself with the nastiness of her husbands (who passed away last month) children, it has taken a toll on my Mother and I am now having to keep a close watch on her……the death of my Step Father has taken a toll on us all, it has had such a knock on effect the way this one person his daughter has behaved, my Mother is so afraid to be alone in her home as she fears the daughter is going to break into her home, my Mother has become so paranoid and no longer goes out…. I am doing this all alone….and it’s wearing me out…
I have virtually seen so little of my son, I had looked forward to his visit so much 5 years is way to long not to see your children, and I cannot imagine how he must be feeling coming into all of this… so much so he has gone to stay with my Father for a while now…
I am at a loss some days, I cannot express my anger how 1 person can complety destroy another…I so much want to go round and see her to tell her to back off..however hat would devestate my Mother…..
I have been put on a new run at work where I’m up at 5.30am and come the night time I’m exhausted… I am hoping soon this ‘blip’ will calm down eventually, normal is not so normal at the moment..
Bless you ALL, and once all this is over I will be back..
Love to you ALL
debz
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debz-please look after yourself!
Take care,
Maisie xxx
So sorry to hear this ,debz,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
we all miss you on S.C.hope to see you back soon.
Dearest Debz, I am so sorry you are having such a dreadful time my friend. Some people are just unbelieveable the lengths they will go to hurt others. Just remember karma happens, good things coming your way and goodness knows what for the daughter. I am thinking of you, your son and your Mum and do hope this is over soon for you all. Please take care of you too, the stress of the last few months must have been terrible, hope you are doing some nice things for yourself as well as looking after your Mum. You are in my prayers and thoughts and will be welcomed back with open arms when you are ready.
Lots of love Debz
Skip xxxx
Thank you so much maize, flower and skip I so needed the hugs and kisses…. what an awfull year this has been…and I’m so happy I will be welcomed back… it’s so hard finding time to do anything lately…..oh well must keep ploughing forward!!!>>>> it’s just every now and then I need a shove!!!
xxxxx
That is absolutely awful Debz and my thoughts are with you and your family. I really hope things start to get a little bit better soon… Try and take good care of yourself as well though xx
a shove and a (((((((((((((hug)))))))))))) xxxx
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BIG HUGS TO OUR DEBZ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))xxxxxxx
sweet debz…my heart hurts for all that you and your family are going thru..i know what havoc 1 person can cause a family…i think they thrive on drama and chaos…i pray things will sort themselves out soon and you and your family can once again look forward to each new day..tc xxxx kat
We can pick and choose our friends,but not our rellys…Sad fact of life,is,nt it?
Prayers for the wellbeing of you and your Mom,heading your way Debz.
Dear, sweet Deb… I’m so saddened to read of all that you and your Mother have had to endure. You are one of the kindest people I have ever known.. it’s just awful what you have had to deal with. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers every day. Please take good care and come back to us as soon as you can. You are greatly missed. Love & Hugs xoxoxox
Oh Debz. I did miss you here but I guessed you had been putting up with all of the crap as before. I take my hat off to you for the restraint you have managed. What kind of behaviour does this daughter react to? Some people have to be spoken to firmly, some only recognise being treated and spoken to the same way as they do or else they bulldoze over you. If you think that she needs telling straight, do it. She has forged documents? She is in no position at the moment to argue over anything. Of course, you are having to deal with your, and mums grief as well as well as how you are feeling about your son. I bet anger is an understatement. You have my number. Please call or text me anytime and I am there for you girl xx
Debz…. My heart is so sadden for you…. but gosh… you are an amazing person. The love and respect you have for your mother is wonderful. Please keep strong and know that at any moment you come in here, the HUGS will rain on you…. Prayers being sent your way……. xx
Aw Debz. So sorry to hear about the latest drama in your life. You’ve been through such a gamut of emotions over the past number of weeks. Sending you hugs and every good wish. W xxx
Dear Debz, what a heavy load to bear, I know that in your kindness & strength, you will come through this, and return to us. We are all here for you, you know that!!!……….. I pray for you my friend, I pray that the sun will come out tomorrow xxxxx
Debz
So very sorry to hear of this. I am sending good thoughts your way xxx