SHAY

At a fundraising dinner for an American school that serves learning disabled children,the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

“When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?” The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. “I believe,that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child.”Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,”Do you think they’ll let me play?” Shay’s father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay’s father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, “We’re losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we’ll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.”

Shay struggled over to the team’s bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father’s joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay’s team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field.

Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay’s team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn’t even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay’s life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, “Shay, run to first! Run to first!” Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, “Run to second, run to second!” Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher’s intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman’s head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, “Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay” Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, “Run to third! Shay, run to third” As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, “Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the “grand slam” and won the game for his team.

That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world. Shay didn’t make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy and coming home and seeing his mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Source: Rabbi Paysach Krohn, a popular lecturer and best-selling author of the ArtScroll Maggid series of short stories

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  1. My heart is warming and I have re-read this twice, and still fight to hold emotions in check. I firmly believe that people do have a compassionate side but for their own reasons choose not to show it when it is needed the most. Young children are not burdened by the expectations of adult life, are not blinded by the color of their skin or difference between their gender. Through the eyes of a child, things are simple.
    Thank you for reminding me that there is hope.

  2. Yes Tania I have 2 close family members that go through some challenges in life. The youngest being only 3 doesnt understand the ridicule yet. Hopefully there will be more experiences like this story than the negative. But thats part if life sadly.

    1. I do hate to think of the ridicule that some of these children go through. There really is no need for it. The children themselves I find are the most loving children that you could imagine. I had a sister in law that was one of these children, sadly she passed, but with heart probs as well she made 50 years so that was good. Thank you grandmaj , God bless your family members.

  3. Hi Tania……..my career was as a manager in homes for people with learning difficulties………you need a pretty thickish skin when taking the residents out and about holidays, pubs, meal out…….the number of people that move or asked to be moved to other tables away from us, staff and residents……but there are two sides of the story here, there could be a resident who coughs and chokes when eating and drinking which can be very off putting for the other diners…as in so called “normal ” people there are the nice ones and nasty ones……ouch !! had more than one thump myself and it cannot always be excused by their disabilities……….by and large just treat people with disabilities the same as anyone else…….they are not deaf so can ask them their names and not bypass them and ask the staff…….its the fear of the unknown which makes people wary…..have done it myself in the past, crossed the road when my daughter was young if I saw anyone walking towards us who looked a bit different…..but one thing that I do not think works and that is trying to integrate people with learning difficulties into main stream school….it does no one any favours…it takes time and attention away from students who can cope and learn from the lessons……and the students with learning difficulties cannot learn at that level and need much simpler tuition which they get in their day centres……so horses for courses……but the moral of that charming story is I feel the self worth and joy the other players would have got from that game by letting Shay play, and the incredible happiness it brought to his parents…… anyway enough of my rambling…lol

    1. I understand all you have said Starlette, we have a Special school here where the where children with special needs go, I visited many times when my sister -in -law went there, The children I found were very loving, yes some had different traits, but all in all they were ok, Thank you