Personal Hurts on Chatters .
On life’s travells we meet many people ,they all have something to offer!…..We don’t always like what it is……,but I think we should at least listen to them. …..In the chat room it is no different people still like to be heard and given the chance to say their piece…..This is a very good place to come to and spend time ……..But not if we are not prepared to let people say what it is they feel……after all it’s like a discussion ….say your side listen to others .We may not agree with it but it’s their point of view and it is as inportant as yours.
Senior chatters has many diverse people on here ,and many places to say what we like and feel…..one place is blogs …..not all people like or read what is posted here ,it’s their choise to read or not…..to write a blog or not to .We don’t always like or agree with that person,but for heavens sake respect that persons view……No one should be made to feel that they are going to be forever damned ……Because of a blog……. ,sometimes there written in a frame of mind that one gets out of later .or because they hadn’t really felt out the place ,before it was written . I am sure we have all at one time said something and thought after …….I shouldn’t have said that.
With so many people from so many countries on chatters ….it is easy to hear something that is not meant……we all speak the same language but we have different interpretations on the words…. it’s easy to get hurt ……..I hear things and I see things ..I also have people come to me to chat and say they were Very hurt by someone who wouldn’t listen to their side …… or am I to always suffer because of a blog I wrote ………. my point is that we should see things as just a discussion and not carry it on ,leave it and go on to the next …… don’t carry a grudge against that person . All these ill feelings tend to be felt by others,we need to relies that other people don’t want to be feeling ill at ease because of some on going thing that happened ages ago…….couldn’t we just forgive and forget .
hear, hear Cathy…well said xx
An adult insight into the frailty of the human condition.
yes it is anubis 🙂
Very well said mac. I’m here to read about other people’s views, on any subject that may be of interest, to me.
Im with you on that mac,
Yes Mac I agree totally with your point off view. We all relate differently & explain in different ways. it dosen’t mean we are wrong or right.
If people in this world were more accepting, it would be a better place.
Some people don’t how to move on. They don’t know to forget or forgive.
Thank you Mac very well said I agree with you.
Well said
wonderful blog,maccie..you are a gifted writer..keep blogging,please..xxxxx
Well said mac xxxxx
I have been thinking about your blog mac and I think one thing has been missed here. I love senior chatters and the many wonderful people on here and so enjoy chat, blogs and groups and listening to other peoples opinions, learn something new everyday, the only thing I do not like is bull dust and as some of you know lol, won’t be silent with that one for myself or anyone else. As you say everyone is an individual with some thing to say and should be heard HOWEVER the thing I have difficulty with is someone presenting a “sweet” caring public face while doing their dirty work behind the scenes. Sometimes things and people are not as they seem and the full story is not known. This not only involves the person saying “poor me” it involves their silent target. So please give a thought when you hear that someone is very hurt their side wasn’t listened to there may be a very good reason.
yes skip that is a good point…..x
Yes good point skippy .then if they are doing dirty work and in chat discuss it ,if it’s wrong what they are doing I have no hesitation in going to rob about it.This site is a wonderful site lets all keep it that way .
For sure mac xxxx
Macathy. A lot of people say and know what to do, but can’t or won’t do it. You really practice what you have just said. I am always happier when you are around.
Thank you Mac for taking the time to write this blog. I so enjoy diversity and a different point of view to mull over! 🙂
Couldn’t put it better myself Skip. Excellent explanation!
With diversity we learn – SC is a site for enjoyment not for bickering – respect for each other’s opinions – each to his own. Live and let live. Well I’ve had my little say LOL 🙂 xoxox
Well put Mac.I often feel lost due to meanings of phrases. All in English, just different countries. Thanks for your efforts to make SC such a great site!
Well done, Mac.
Excellent blog, Mac. I love reading the blogs and the different comments. The diversity in opinions makes for an interesting read. 🙂