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  • tjay posted an update 2 days ago

    2 days ago

    Best virtual hug ever. Im gonna keep replaying. From me to anyone who needs it

  • Look who’s back! The kennels said one word, belisimo.

    My poor Wilson. Ive not had a cutch/cuddle for 3 months. I left him and Ray on my boat, back in Tunisia mid march to visit Mum back in the Uk could not leave, she was so unwell. The two of them got as far as Gibraltar with crew. When I screamed help. Ray came back to support me for a few weeks. But that Put Wilson in a foreign kennels. Just…

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    • I am totally missing any sort of context that would make sense of this post, but it’s got my attention. Now I want to follow this adventure. Wishing some smooth sailing to you Tjay, and to Wilson, Ray, and your Mum.

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    • @tjay , Yes will pray for safe travels for Ray and Wilson & you & your Mom. Hope she is doing better. May I ask is that Ray in the photo and what is that on him?

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  • tjay posted a new post. 2 weeks ago

    2 weeks ago

    Just say Hello

    Stop saying, Hi how are you?, or hows things? Or Hows your day? Unless you really want to know, and have time, empathy, heart and head…

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    • From experience, most dont want to know. But they no longer ask me. I'd rather that opposed to them asking and not caring at all.
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    • I will ALWAY'S respond to a genuine 'tortured soul' but how many actually ARE ! 🤔 Also, I never give out any advice unless asked, then I'd do my very best to help.
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  • Ok how do I copy the link to one of my groups. Ive made it private to allow us abit of privacy to share with members only. But want to keep sending a general invite to encourage others to join? Ive done it once ‘but how 🙄🤯

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    • @tjay if its the caring group, you just go to manage, and invite… Or just make a post on activity to encourage others to join. A private group is not a hidden group. Members can see in groups where it says, caring group etc, they just cant join without an invite. Or I will give you the link and you can copy that. But do you want to put the…

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    • I think I just found it, I dont see much risk from scammers, but I guess that is just me

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  • Hi Guys

    For the first time in 2 years. Ive had to delete notifications without reading. So apologies for lack of response. Just too busy and to be honest Ive not got ‘a good word for the cat’. Which reminds me Im so missing my Springer, Wilson. Not seen him in over 2 months now. Ray has returned to give me some morale support. Poor old Wilson…

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    • dj

      Pretty sad reading this is. I hope you get your mojo back really soon and we have our @tjay back as well. Tough times for you which I can only imagine what it must be like.

      • Things WILL return to normal @tjay I can promise you that but it’s all a matter of time. 💞

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      • Uk Council Tax

        Did you know if you are on high rate attendence allowance, (maybe just living alone) you may be exempt from paying council tax.

        • Now you have me wondering @tjay as I’m on the higher A/A maybe my partner could be exempt ? 🤔

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      • Angie90 and Profile photo of tjaytjay are now connected 6 weeks ago

        6 weeks ago

      • Any carers out there?

        Just an invite to join us in my recent group. Its a new role for me. And like many others just finding time for ‘everything’ and head space is a challenge. But I know the only ones who really get it, are those doing it. Its a private members only so just message me if you are interested.

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