GRRRRRRRRRRRR !!!
Why are some .. not all of the men on this site unable to understand that friendship means just that and is not in anyway.. for me personally an indication that I want to send pictures of myself , or look at their ‘all over tan’ , why cannot they accept a platonic friendship , and despite me deleting this particular persons’ friendship I have received another message from them today . He is not the first I have had to delete because of things being taken ‘too far ‘ by them and I’m sure some of you ladies have also had the same problem . I am not a prude or old fuddy duddy just a very happily married lady for which I am very grateful .
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Laff – please copy and paste the message you received and submit it via Scammer Watch and it will be investigated. A Site Admin will then decide whether this members should be removed from Senior Chatters altogether.
I’ve deleted them all Rob Laff
I have not had that problem on here yet …but I do recall that on the previous site we were able to block other users from sending messages..
Perhaps that could be implemented again…all the best…
thank you nmod
just go to edit profile and change my settings and you can block
Thanks Leaf. Everyone has their own privacy options for messages – My Account > Message Settings > Message Privacy
Live and learn, Admin
I have not had any problems at all. All the men I talk to in chat have been gentlemen
Same here grandmaj, I must not have the allure of some of my ‘sisters’ on here :), seriously though, I agree unsolicited advances are not what this site is about, its safety is why it is so popular and such a pleasant place to visit after a long day. Many of the gentlemen I have ‘met’ on here I am glad to call friends, I would put this behind you and if it happens again report it and ignore it
Me neither, the only requests I get are from the usual so called scammer letters, of which I copy and paste and then report to scammer watch….
Like gj said all the men I chat with are all very respectfull, banter, fun and no harm intended.
If you get anymore email I suffest you keep them and then forward them on, I echo waht elvera says just put it behind you!!
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ops excuse spelling awaiting a new keyboard!!!
This unwelcome behaviour is not totally confined to the men Laff,however,men of my age can feel quite chuffed that any woman would want to show us piccys of thier “all over tan”…lol.
Serously though,I can understand your angst at these creeps.
I,v just uploaded one I recieved into the “Album” section of my profile,if anyone is interested.
Didnt know where else to put it.
i’ve not had to many problems with men trying to go to far..especially in chat..probably cause my bad reputation precedes me..lol..i used to be very vocal when a guy started stepping over the line and have had times where a fellow or two will tell the offender to back off before i can..not had any problem lately..wonder if it’s cause i had my real pic on my profile for awhile?..lol
hmmmm never had that prob sob sob sob!!!! 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁
omg laff idont know anything about this…what a cheek…I must admit I only had the one problem ….then I changed all my settings and deleted them grom my friends list…so sorry….xxxxxxx M