Growing Old…A Privilege
Growing Old….A Privilege
I have been sitting here pondering what to do this new day given to me…and such a sunny day! as i age, i am thankful for each new decade i get to experience.
Used to dread the thought, as most of us do, of getting older, but after many health experiences past 5 years, im thankful to be able to age.
As well, each new decade brings new experiences, some good, some bad, but still an experience. For example, at age 63, i find i am slowing down somewhat. Could be just from all my recent surgeries, but even so, slowing down. And, i find i tire more easily.
But, regardless, it is so great to just wake up and enjoy all the good things life brings us.
Many folks die way too young, not getting the chance to grow old. Growing old is an experience we are lucky to have, if we get the chance.
Now in my sixties, im finding new things to keep me busy. For example, i volunteer an oldies music list, 50′s n 60′s music, to the music director of a local radio station, for a show broadcast friday nights. It is fun, and gives me something i enjoy doing. As well, i volunteer helping out various charities from time to time. This is sometimes exhausting, but so rewarding.
Yes, my sixties dont seem so bad afterall, even with those health problems bought on by aging. i am looking forward to my 70′s, and the new experiences they will bring. Life is so precious, i am thankful and grateful God has given me the chance to age, i have enjoyed going through the decades of my life so far, and if i get the chance , looking forward to the next decade.
Hubby is now retired, we are enjoying just going off, sitting on a bench in the park, and relaxing. Enjoying all the sounds of nature, and having this time with each other. I do worry of getting dementia, or even having a stroke down the road, but still if we are lucky enough to have the chance to grow old, we are so fortunate.
What is that saying..” Grow old with me, the best is yet to be “…..hope to be able to experience the next decade, and all that the “growing older change” offers, be it good or bad.
So wonderful to wake up , especially on a sunny day! makes all those problems of aging seem minimal, and for some strange reason, a sunny day seems to erase all those problems of aging!
Get out and enjoy life, and each new decade, for there are new experiences just awaiting to be found.
Brenda
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This is an excellent blog, thank you Dianne
Yes growing old is a privilege that not everyone experiences. It is also a great deal better when you have a partner to share it with, to sit on the park bench with, and to comfort you during surgery and illness. Being old and single and in chronic daily pain, it is not so wonderful. I have been alone for 20 years and gone through 13 operations and would loved to have had someone to hold my hand, give me a hug and tell me everything will be okay. Also to help me when discharged home. I have 2 sons, but it is not the same as a loving partner. But hey them’s the breaks. So enjoy your life together, and appreciate each other. I am in my late 70’s, so a little ahead of you. I take opioids for my severe pain, but the Government of Australia is cracking down on these because of people overdosing on them, and I may not be able to get them soon. Painful old age is not good, so if I can’t get my pain relief, then life will be unpleasant. Sorry to sound dreary, but not all old age is good. Enjoy yours with your partner, and may there be many more years for you to enjoy. Take care xoxo
Dear Foreveryoung i do sympathize with you and cannot imagine the pain you are going through. I am so sorry for your dilema, hope that things will get better for you with God’s help. Thank you for your comment, take care xo