We are a chat site and many of us are not satisfied, are bored, or take offense and the list goes on. I would like to suggest some improvements and hope that others will also suggest their own.. I would like to stick to improvements and not a lot of negativity.
First, If you are not satisfied, do you bring something interesting or do you expect to find something exciting there for you? We are an international chat site and many things are different and interesting. Food and weather can be interesting or not. The weather and plant and animal life are all good safe topics and interesting enough.
Come prepared to listen, really listen and to talk. Talk respectfully and wait a while if you want to turn the subject to something else. We have an opportunity to enrich our lives here but we have to have an open mind and listening ears to learn about others and their opinions and way of life.
The chatroom people are not different than in real life, so practice the same courtesies and have the same expectations. The rules say we don't talk to upset others, so if we are going to be controversial, we need to tread carefully.
I have had a lot of fun and I have learned a lot so I think we all need to think about something interesting before we go to chat. The highlight of your day or a dreaded chore, or the new recipe are more interesting than having nothing to say. Try to bring some enthusiasm for something.
I am sure people have other good ideas and some may disagree, but I hope we can get a conversation about conversation going. Come to talk and to listen. Lurker's make most people nervous or curious, so come to chat like you are coming to a living room or a breakfast table. Be formal or informal, but be respectful and try to listen and have something to say.