Cemetery watchman
I thought this was a nice story…………
My
friend Kevin and I are volunteers at a National
cemetery in
Oklahoma and put in a few days a month in a ‘slightly larger’
uniform.
Today had been a long, long day and I just wanted to get
the day over with and go down to Smokey’s and have a cold one.
Sneaking a look at my watch, I saw the time, 16:55. Five minutes to
go before the cemetery gates are closed for the day. Full dress was
hot in the August sun Oklahoma summertime was as bad as ever–the
heat and humidity at the same level–both too high.
I saw the car pull into the drive, ’69 or ’70 model Cadillac Deville, looked factory-new. It pulled
into the parking lot at a snail’s pace.. An old woman got out so
slow I thought she was paralyzed; she had a cane and a sheaf of
flowers–about four or five bunches as best I could tell.
I
couldn’t help myself. The thought came unwanted, and left a slightly
bitter taste: ‘She’s going to spend an hour, and for this old
soldier, my hip hurts like hell and I’m ready to get out of here
right now!’ But for this day, my duty was to assist anyone coming
in. Kevin would lock the ‘In’ gate and if I could hurry the
old biddy along, we might make it to Smokey’s in time.
I
broke post attention. My hip made gritty noises when I took the
first step and the pain went up a notch. I must have made a real
military sight: middle-aged man with a small pot gut and half a limp, in marine full-dress uniform, which had lost its razor crease
about thirty minutes after I began the watch at the cemetery.
I stopped in front of her, halfway up the walk. She looked
up at me with an old woman’s squint. ‘Ma’am,
may I assist you in any way?’
She took long enough to answer.
‘Yes,
son. Can you carry these flowers? I seem to be moving a tad slow
these days.’
‘My
pleasure, ma’am.’
(Well, it wasn’t too much of a lie.)
She looked again.
‘Marine,
where were you stationed?’
‘ Vietnam,
ma’am.. Ground-pounder. ’69 to ’71.’ She looked at me closer. ‘Wounded
in action, I see. Well done, Marine. I’ll be as quick as I
can.’
I lied a little bigger: ‘No
hurry, ma’am.’
She smiled and winked at me. ‘Son,
I’m 85-years-old and I can tell a lie from a long way off.. Let’s
get this done. Might be the last time I can do this. My name’s
Joanne Wieserman, and I’ve a few Marines I’d like to see one more time..’
‘Yes,
ma ‘am. At your service.’
She headed for the World War I section, stopping at a stone.
She picked one of the flower bunches out of my arm and laid it on
top of the stone. She murmured something I couldn’t quite make out..
The name on the marble was Donald
S. Davidson, USMC: France 1918.
She turned away and made a straight line for the World War
II section, stopping at one stone. I saw a tear slowly tracking its
way down her cheek. She put a bunch on a stone; the name was
Stephen
X.Davidson, USMC, 1943. She went up the row a ways and laid another bunch on a
stone, Stanley
J. Wieserman, USMC, 1944..
She paused for a second and more tears flowed. ‘Two
more, son, and we’ll be done’
I almost didn’t say anything, but,
‘Yes,
ma’am. Take your time.’
She looked confused.. ‘Where’s
the Vietnam section, son? I seem to have lost my
way.’
I pointed with my chin. ‘That
way, ma’am.’
‘Oh!’ she chuckled quietly. ‘Son,
me and old age ain’t too friendly.’
She headed down the walk I’d pointed at. She stopped at a
couple of stones before she found the ones she wanted. She placed a
bunch on Larry
Wieserman, USMC, 1968,
and the last on Darrel
Wieserman, USMC, 1970.
She stood there and murmured a few words I still couldn’t make out
and more tears flowed.
‘OK,
son, I’m finished. Get me back to my car and you can go
home.’
Yes,
ma’am. If I may ask, were those your
kinfolk?’
She paused. ‘Yes,
Donald
Davidson
was my father, Stephenwas
my uncle, Stanley
was my husband, Larry
and Darrel were
our sons. All killed in action, all
Marines.’
She stopped! Whether she had finished, or couldn’t finish, I
don’t know. She made her way to her car, slowly and painfully.
I
waited for a polite distance to come between us and then
double-timed it over to Kevin, waiting by the
car.
‘Get to the ‘Out’ gate quick.. I have something I’ve got to
do.’
Kevin started to say something, but saw the look I gave him.
He broke the rules to get us there down the service road fast. We
beat her. She hadn’t made it around the rotunda yet.
‘Kevin,
stand at attention next to the gatepost. Follow my
lead.’
I humped it across the drive to the other post
When the
Cadillac came puttering around from the hedges and began the short
straight traverse to the gate, I called in my best gunny’s voice:
‘TehenHut!
Present Haaaarms!’
I have to hand it to Kevin; he never blinked an eye–full
dress attention and a salute that would make his DI proud.
She
drove through that gate with two old worn-out soldiers giving her a
send-off she deserved, for service rendered to her country, and for
knowing duty, honor and sacrifice far beyond the realm of most.
I am not sure, but I think I saw a salute returned from that
Cadillac.
Instead of ‘The
End,’
just think of ‘Taps.’
As
a final thought on my part, let me share a favorite prayer:
‘Lord,
keep our servicemen and women safe, whether they serve at home or
overseas. Hold them in your loving hands and protect them as they
protect us.’
Let’s all keep those currently serving and those who have
gone before in our thoughts. They are the reason for the many
freedoms we enjoy.
‘In
God We Trust.’
Sorry
about your monitor; it made mine blurry too!
If we ever
forget that we’re one nation under God, then we will be a nation
gone under!
“Ask not what your country can
do for you, but what you can do for your country”
Some of you will have read this before but i thought it was worth reading again!!! 🙂
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If ever there were evedr a post worth reading and saving it would be this one….It brought tears to my eyes also. My Father-in-law was a Marine and his pride having served was great and lasted till his passing.
Our respect for him lives on. Once a Marine Family, Always a Marine Family.
Semper Fidelis…Artist2047
oh thank you artist. so happy you thought it was a good post 🙂
I’m sorry for all the losses, too. I wish I could really say what I feel about our country going to war needlessly and our inability to promote real peace in the world, but if I did nobody would talk to me in here. So I won’t! I don’t want to seem unpatriotic!
thank you so much jay…i do appreciate you reading hun 🙂
For all our soldiers (American and Australian) those who have gone and those still fighting, we salute you, and hopefully one day your efforts may result in a more peaceful world. Prayers and thoughts for all the mothers who have lost their loved ones – a mother’s grief is so overwhelming – and also to the families.
i can’t even start to think how it must be for parents who have lost their sons and daughters. thank you so much for your comments 🙂
My screen was blurry and the wind sent dad’s photo fluttering to my chair. Just beautiful pollie, thank you
i can understand that skippy…. weird about the pic though…i wonder what he was trying to say to you? funny how things happen like that 🙂
pollie that was very touching. i agree with jayofnj on the fact that if i said what i think about the fighting in the world it also would create a bad response. very good story though pols.
thank you jcb for reading and for your comment 🙂