Bit On The Side

starlette February 20, 2014
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Now i’m not talking side salad here, recently i spent some time with a lady who in her line of work spends a lot of time talking with women………..a lot of these women are in a relationship/ marriage which are past their sell by date (as it were )………what to do………well she says that while she is not advocating affairs, sometimes it is affairs that can keep a relationship together…..lots of people it would seem stay in a relationship because it is easier……..financial, family,finding other accommodation, lots of different reasons……… this of course includes men too…………..but what a sad position to be in……….maybe a commune for people in this position would be the answer…………..living in Wigwams could be fun.x

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starlette
Love music most types........reading biographys/autobiography's...... Chatting and socialising...........enjoy the countryside and the river.....I have two children I grandson,they are my life,best times when we are together,lots of laughter....

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      1. vonmichael February 21, 2014

        Lift the wigwam up and fit it out with boxspring beds. That could be an absolutely acceptable solution. Shouldn’t you make some ideas for this kind of community Star? Who sleeps with whom, who pays for what, who goes on holidays with whom e.g.e.g.!

  5. starlette February 20, 2014

    Turnkey, brave of you to say so………who are we to judge………walk a mile in my shoe’s as the saying go’s…………really didn’t expect any of the guy’s to comment on this one………but there you go,.Thankyou x

  9. starlette February 20, 2014

    I so agree with you there GTG……..but then what……….do you plod on feeling unfulfilled for the rest of your day’s……….because of the aforementioned reasons…….not saying you shouldn’t……….not saying you should……x

  12. Unknown Member February 21, 2014

    Ohhh, no, it’s no good, can’t help myself, hahaaaa. Now Lani, you know full well i loves ya dearly, so i’m not having a go, so no fallouts here, ok ?
    1. Counselling ?, wouldn’t give it house room, if the spark’s not there in the first place, you’re never going to start a fire are you ?
    2. Divorce ?, Fair enough, but not everybody can afford one can they ?
    3. Somebody above said, ‘If there are children involved etc …. totally agree there, that’s a whole new ballgame.
    4. Star, you also said, ‘Walk a mile in my shoes’, yes, totally agree, then come preaching at my door telling me what to do and what not to do.
    5. Finally, i don’t know about anyone here, but a bit of mild flirtation never did anyone any harm. I don’t often feel low, but when i do, and someone’s paid me a compliment, or said something a little bit ‘flirty’, aimed at me, i love it !!. Where the hell’s the harm ?, as long as it stays online and goes no further.
    Now, before 101 women jump on me, i’m off, i won’t retaliate, no further comments shall you hear from my lips, but i’ve got the satisfaction of knowing i’ve said my piece.
    Thankyou, and Goodnight. x

  14. Unknown Member February 22, 2014

    I guess there comes a time when you look at that other and think what am i doing here. When it’s over it’s over,move out and get a divorce is the best. Then there is no bit on the side just someone to enjoy times with.
    It was a year before i started to really talk to a woman in a flirty way.
    Now i am just enjoying life with who ever wants to chat.

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