I joined here just to be able to talk to others …. I’ve just lost my Mum in February, whom I was caring for.
The reality of loneliness is really hitting me hard…. but I know with time it will improve.
I have family and a daughter… but I’m just not used to a single moment alone!
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You’ve come to the right place. Many others are in your position and / or feel like they are almost.
Sorry for your loss. There isn’t much else that can be said other than to gain strength and support from others on here like us.
None of us are spring chickens and often we open our eyes in the morning and think “Yayyy… I’m here for the start of a new day, what will that bring me?” and things like that.
Hopefully you should get many more replies here too, not just mine.
Thankyou so much for the reassurance 🌷
@Angie90 Hopefully you will find a few to chat to on the site. Like Dj said, there is a few in the same boat as you. Message me anytime if you wish.
Thankyou 🌷🙂
When you lose a loved one @Angie90 especially, as in your case, one you have been caring for, you receive two blows. One to your heart and one to your head. Both of which stun you and almost bring you to your knees. You may have been expecting the inevitable but, nonetheless, it hits you like a freight train. I can only give you one crumb of comfort and that is to tell you that you WILL come to terms with your loss – eventually. People will say “you’ll get over it” this is not the case. You will however, come to terms with it and accept it but, this takes time, it will take longer for you as you were the carer for your much loved Mother but it will happen. Believe me as I really do know this to be the truth. Stay strong my dear and take comfort from those who love you and hold fast to the lovely past memories of your dear Mum. 💞
Thankyou so much for your kind words❤️…. just the fact that you understand makes me feel better ❤️🌷
Im so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the devastating emotions and loneliness. A close bond with your Mum magnified by the caring role is huge. It triggers much for me as I start my role in caring for my Mum. She is 94 and physically frail. Ive just started a group for carers. Your thoughts and wisdom would be very welcome. But I am aware it might be totally wrong for you at this part of your journey. I would welcome a pm from you anytime. To hear your story. I find these online friendships so supportive in sharing emotions the world does not want to see and we often dont want to show. I hope you find some like minded people at this difficult time. 💔
Hi @tjay❤️… Honestly if I can help you in anyway I would love too …. I hope I’ll be able to give you some helpful advice…. to care for your Mum is very emotional but rewarding…. I also learnt the importance of patience and understanding…. Sometimes if my Mum came across annoyed, all she actually needed was a hug and reassurance. ❤️
Will pm you and send invite to group.
Angie, My mother died over 40 years ago and I still miss her but have the memory of what she taught me and I value that. Carry your memories of your mother and her guiding spirit. . Most places there are grief support groups that work t help a lot of people. Focus on what you have pushed out of your mind and what you can do now. There are usually therapists and social workers in most places. My insurance pays for them. Grief is normal, but if it causes dysfunction, you need help. I hope this helps.
Thankyou so much🌷…. xx
Sorry for your loss. Hope you find peace and joy in your heart.
Hello Angie, I’m so sorry to read that you lost your Mum back in February. It doesn’t matter how old one gets, you always need your Mum at some time and it hurts when she isn’t there any more. I know the feeling; the heartbreak, the waking up and thinking that she is still there after dreaming about her, and the loss starts all over again. I had to keep reminding myself that I’m sure her spirit is still around for me, it’s nothing tangible, just a sense of having her near. I’m hoping that you are making new friends and becoming less lonely as the year moves on x