THE FENCE
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.
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Very good, thank you Tania
Thank you grandmaj
Hi Tania……..I once read grumpy people with bad tempers just get worse as they age…….I like to think they learn more sense and not let petty things bother them anymore…….I don’t know if its possible to control your temper when you see red when something really irks you………I think there will be a lot of fences with a lot of nails still in them never to be pulled out……….irate people behind the wheel of a vehicle come to mind….otherwise known as road rage idiots…
Hi Star…yes there is a lot of truth in what you say…I think some people will always have a bad temper…I prefer the quiet life personally.
This is so true. I too prefer the quiet life, I wish that people would learn to think before they speak though.
Thank you Sueblue43…..I wish the same.
I agree with all of you.. I usually wait til I’m home alone then say what I wish I could of said in person.. lol that way I have no regrets and I feel better getting it out of my system.. thank goodness for me doesn’t happen very often until the idiots are driving on the road.lol
Thank you, irishnan. You do the correct thing.
Whatcha mean!!! Get WORSE with age????? HOW DARE YOU!!!! lol
Well an outburst like that…Just Proves you are getting worse, waylander….but then again we can excuse you cos of your age!!! LOL, Thank you