A Queer person (beware)
Message I recieved from :
Polyglot55
Me, me, me. I. I. I. I. ad nauseam….. What a narcissistic bore!
Your poor, long-suffering wife is either a martyr, deaf and dumb, or desperate to have a man, any man, in her life. Or acting like a surrogate mother.
Good bye, you silly man, suffering from a prolonged infantilism.
I must have annoyed her in some way.
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I am sorry you received this bill, hate mail comes as a shock. Such lovely people here and like anywhere there are always a few like this. Glad you exposed and warned others, thank you xxx
Yes what a nasty person to send mail like this Bill Thank you for the warning. xx
Thank you for exposing this person Bill and I hope they feel suitably embarrassed over it.It will be deserved…..:-)
i wonder what is wrong with this person..all she needed to do is un-friend bill..she didn’t have to get so nasty…i’m not one for name and shame but ,in this case,it’s very much called for..at the very least she ought to apologize to bill..or just find another chat site..
I don’t understand the need to punish people who write PERSONAL nasty letters to one member or another. Nobody likes everybody else. Does it make the receiver feel powerful to try to strike back at the sender? Granted the sender is perhaps wrong, I just think it’s ridiculous to air ones dirty laundry in public. Nobody ever agrees with me but ..you know me, I don’t care. It smacks of cyber bully tactics and I don’t hold with that. If one is going to waste the time to be offended in the first place, then take the time to reply to the sender privately, what business is it of anyone else’s? Is it a need for reinforcement of the receiver’s insulted frame of mind? I know the answers..these are rhetorical questions….. I make inflammatory replies to blogs from time to time, it’s not personally directed at you Bill, Not actually meant to upset anyone, I had nothing better to do……
My personal thoughts on this tess are we are mostly a friendly group of people who support each other. I know I was bewildered when i received my first hate mail full of untruths which the sender made public and I didn’t know who to ask for help, ended up asking two monitors to read. They were wonderful and yes i did reply in public. yes i can feel sad for the sender however I and everyone else also have a right to defend our reputations, if it is being done in private it is being done everywhere lol, chat, whispers etc. If enough members expose these people maybe they will cease.
I entirely agree with skippy and disagree with Tessa. People who send hate male need to be exposed – the bully in this case wasn’t Bill, he was the victim. Bullies like polyglot55 are a blight on an otherwise happy friendly group. I personally wish everyone who experiences unwarranted nastiness brought it to Rob’s attention so that he could deal with these troublemakers, before they drive new members away.
That was a bit harsh of her Bill. I see it this way; When one person has to attempt to bring another
human down in any form, there has to be something in the person’s life that is hurting them in some way. I adopted a saying long time ago and it is true, “Hurt people hurt”. One has to wonder and have passion on a person who seeks to “hurt” or bring another down. When someone does this to me, and at some point I suppose we all have, I just smile at them and tell them how special they are. You can kill someone with kindness. For me it has been the best prescription. Just my 2cents…..
oh tessa..i never meant to bully anybody..now i wish i hadn’t said anything..lol..and you thought nobody would agree with you..lol..
I am just curious as to what on earth you wrote to provoke such a nasty attack. It is deplorable anyhow that she should bring your wife into it. Lets hope her 14 days are soon up.
Always question before judging.