Evening Air

Let me take you for a walk, in the evening air. Better bring a jacket because it is chilly out here. Let’s walk and talk and put all of our troubles to rest. Evening air is relaxing and the end of the day as brought closer to all of the business of the day, now we unwind and relax. I love the evening, theslowing down and unwinding feeling. Communication and soft conversation are the tools that make all of the pieces fit together. We tend to not take the time and unwind and focus on the reason we are doing things for. Every purpose has a process and in that process we find answers, every answer is the small pieces that when put together come up with a conculsion or a way of fixing a problem. So many of our friends have not taken that walk, to under stand the under lying issues of what is going wrong. After the foundation of marriage is under mined it takes a lot of work to repair the problems. All problems start small and grow, take the time to fix the cracks in the foundation before it becomes a break. Remember in all of this why you started this journey. Remember your first kiss as a couple, that special person that caught your eye, the person of interest at the party. All of these first responses where you started and built a relationship from there. Marriage is a common bond between two people, who go before all their friends and promise to God, their friends and most of all each other. Marriages break up because we as a couple quit trying. Marriage I feel is soming you have to work at. When they said better or worse, they meant that you both had to do your part to support your spouse. We all go thru life changes and life’s issues but together we are stronger. So, if you are going thru rough water in your marriage, take the time as a couple to walk, hand in hand. Remember that first kiss, those special moments together, help each other, hold each other, don’t forget to tell each other that you love them, go out to dinner, kindness buys lots of brownie points. Don’t give up on a plan that has taken so many years to build on. Being alone or with some one else is like the greener pasture idea, but I know alot of people that jumped over that fence to find that the grass on the other side of the fence wasn’t as tasty as what they had. Thanks for listening,