Extended Families
In many cultures the extended family are, and always have been, the normal way of life. Throughout the history of the Western world, it has gone through cycles. Oftentimes, it was a result of immigration and resettlement. Through times of war or depression. When divorce reared its ugly head daugh
ters often moved back home. But it was usually the children moving back home. When the parents moved in with the kids it was usually because the parents had become feeble and needed someone to take care of them. Or so the the average person thought.
I live with my daughter and her two children. It is a mutual need. We help each other in whatever way we can. She won’t let me do some things…my health has put a limit on what I can and can’t do. But I am still a vital part of the family. All decisions are discussed and made by both of us. My thoughts and opinions are heard and considered. As are her’s.
Back in the sixties everyone went out searching for themselves. In the eighties it became popular to think of yourself first. I think the pendulum has swung once again because what everyone found back then was lacking. Family is more than name or location. It makes us stronger when facing the world. It gives us peace when the world around us is too hectic and rambunctious. It allows us to be ourselves without worry of judgment. I speak, of course, of the ideal family in an unideal world. But we are the ones to make that family ideal. From our hearts and minds will come the basis for coming generations. And we are needed to accomplish that challenge.
Enjoy the family you have. And create the family you desire.
Love, Jackie xxx
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Unfortunately I dont have the family I was born into, but was lucky enough to have couple of friends that became my family. My created family. Thanks Jackie 🙂
Whether born into or created, family is still family. The ties and bonds are just as great. And with the created family you get to choose who the members are. Love, Jackie xxx
I am lucky, i have a close and caring family,some people do not, so therefore good loyal friends are better to have in your life than a indifferent family…….they are your network and famliy. Good Blog Jackie.
I really liked this, as I live with my daughter and her family too. They bring joy, purpose and entertainment to my life .. I feel as though I am contributing to their life and making things a little bit easier for them. My father lives with my sister and has at times lived with me and that worked well also… I guess it depends on family culture whether that is looked at as a good thing, but I would not have it any other way 🙂
i am lucky as i do have a close and caring family and we all get together on a sunday for our family day.
I chose my family members all of whom I love and the family is still increasing, who could want more than that. Good blog jackie, thank you xxx
I also live with one of my daughters and we work as partners .It is her house our rules and works out fine I also have 4 other daughters and a son spread out in 4 states and try to spend a few months each year with each of them they keep me young and always want me there oh there are also 20 grandkids and 25 great grand babies included I Am really Blessed and I thank God every day for my family